Cycle I: Coming on Strong
The Hidden Voice
The Record · 03 (v2.00)
THE HOUSE OF ZAN — Zan
VOICE ADVISORY: The speaking voice is practical caution trying to organize fantasy into roles. Contains themes of online relationships, expectations, sexual humor, deception, compatibility, and projection.
Sometimes… a concept can become an urge.
That urge can lead into a reality.
That reality can become a nightmare.
Then… OH SHIT!
How can we prevent that from happening?
Simple.
Role Analysis and Measured Expectations.
Unlike in forced-proximity situations, when connecting with someone in this digital era, the options are limitless.
This allows for new, mutually beneficial opportunities and/or adventures with individuals we would otherwise never encounter in our own local cesspools.
A Stranger.
A Friend.
A Partner.
A Lover.
A Fleshstick.
Suddenly, people we may never have encountered otherwise are available to imagine into almost any role.
So, Role Analysis, for this copy, will be defined as determining what role you need in your life.
Do you need a friend?
A partner?
A mentor?
A stalker?
If you are into cannibalism, maybe you just want a hamburger.
Understanding the role you need filled is critical to understanding what you expect another person to become.
For example, if you are a younger individual with no background in this kind of thing, and you need something more personal one-on-one, you may want to be seeking a mentor instead of a lifelong sadist.
Look, I’m just saying…
buttholes don’t always tighten back up over time.
The key to the best outcome is understanding what you want and which role you need filled, not always what hole you want to have filled the fastest.
Sorry, role.
So you know which role you want filled to help you on your way to your ultimate goal.
What’s next?
Oh, Measured Expectations.
That’s right.
When you are connecting with someone who seems to fit your role type, it’s helpful to have a clear, realistic perspective of whether this person can actually meet your expectations of them…
and whether you can meet theirs.
The person in your head has an unfair advantage.
They already know the script.
The person on the other side of the screen does not.
Since everybody (yes, everybody) lies or hides something, this can be hard to determine at face value and usually takes time.
Sometimes the role fits.
Sometimes only the fantasy did.
Generally, being upfront and clear with your potential role-mate about what you are wanting and what you don’t want can help keep expectations somewhere near reality.
There are subtle ways to do it.
Matter-of-fact ways to do it.
To avoid scaring off everyone, I would recommend not turning it into a full-blown interrogation.
Unless that’s your thing, of course.
Now that that’s out of the way, time to find the perfect role-mate for myself.
How many of you out there are feminine, fun-time slave-types, open to closed, one-sided poly relationships?
Also.
Must be open to Alienism.
Show of hands, please?
Companion Track: “Cannonball” — The Breeders
VOICE FEEDBACK: From the Heart, or Something Like That — <3